"Love" Discussion

Wat is Love to u? Such a small & simple word, yet carry such profoundness.

My colleagues & I were debating abt this case. Here's a brief summary. Meadows (girl) was in luv wif Sun (he was her 1st love), they were 2gather 2 full years. While wif Meadows, Sun was also seeing other gal/gals. Along the way, Sun impregnanted another gal, so out of responsibility, Sun marry the mother of his unborn child. Soon after, Meadows get involve with Thunder (Sun's Bro) & move in wif him.

It was believe that Meadows did it to spite Sun & to b near Sun @ the same time.

Is it that Meadows luv Sun too much? So much so tat she is willing to ruin her life jus to b near Sun. As 4 Thunder, he knows Meadows feelings 4 Sun, so y still b wif her? Along the way, there is rumours that Thunder hv other woman/women outside too.

We were arguing abt Meadows' & Thunder's behaviour.

4 myself, in 'Love' there is no rite or wrong, only love or not love. To certain extend, I feel tat Meadows is wrong. Wrong in a way she make use of Thunder's feelings 4 her. It's like she is jus using him as a float. However, I oso feel tat Meadows is suffering. She was wif Thunder (some1 she doesn't love), so as 2 know abt Sun's (some1 she loves dearly) life, to b near Sun. It's not ez to live wif some1 u dun love. Moreover, it's tough on her 2 continue loving some1 who cannot or will not return ur love. This kinda heartache is 'undescribable'.

We did ask Meadows, if Sun were 2 go back to her, wld she accept? She say YES, without any doubts.

Somehow, I admired Meadows sureness of her love 4 Sun. How many of us can be this courageous to admit our love and fall all in, even when we know it's the wrong man.

How abt Thunder? My friend mentioned tat Thunder is likely another jerk.

For myself, I am not too sure. My arguments are, wat if Thunder really loves Meadows but found out tat Meadows is still in Love wif Sun, his own bro? Wat if Thunder tries very hard to make Meadows love him but fail? How hard wld it b 4 Thunder if my abv qns are true. It gonna b very hurtful. But of cus, I am not saying I agree to Thunder actions by having affairs with other women. Then again, on the contradicting side, somehow I feel tat when u can't find Love @ hm (or wif ur partner), eventually, if some1 come along wif the rite chemistry, u might jus not b able to control the feelings. So, is it really wrong to love another????

Wat wld u do if u r Meadows?? Will u go back to Sun if he really come back? Will u marry Thunder if he ask 4 ur hand??

I really hope to hear ur views....